只因有你♥

TO：My Lovely Babe "Xiao Li, Sansan, Peggy "  

亲爱的朋友们，答应我，你们要一直记得

你比你相信的更勇敢

你比你看起来更坚强

你比你想像的更聪明!

你们有着或多或少的相同的爱好，哪怕只有一点点

只有在她们面前的那个，才是最最真实的你。

我们的约定着，总是那么那么多的以后

其实只是分不开

我们好到会经常被人说是同性恋，哈哈哈哈！

其实我们会经常小吵一下，却总是厚着脸皮磨回来。

你的生命里没有这样的一个人，总是在你最无助的时候出现，

宁可让自己受委屈也要帮你解决问题。

这个人知道你喜欢什么讨厌什么，

知道你所有的缺点，但，

还是喜欢着你。

如果你生命中有这样的一个人

请好好珍惜就算不能牵手，

也值得做永远的朋友。

如果有一天，你心动了，

恋爱了，我不会说什么只会把祝福送给你。

如果有一天，你受伤了，

疲倦了，我还是不会说什么，只会把肩膀借给你靠。

每一个人都会有伤心难过的时候

有时候我们会惊奇的发现

每次在你难过是听你哭诉，陪你伤心的总是那么几个人。

在你快乐时

他们也许不会出现

但当你难过时，

他们总是第一时间出现在你身旁

好朋友是一辈子的事，

更何况我们是大家的老婆。

十年后、我希望我身边还会有你们这样的朋友

没有名利的牵绊。

可以踢开我家的门，招呼也不打随意开我的冰箱，

喝我喝过的可乐催我做饭，把我推进厨房，

开始没心没肺的开我玩笑，骂我是白痴笨蛋。

最后替我收拾了房间不问我最近过得好吗？

然后我们一起傻笑了♥

My Dear Frenz Promise Me You'll Always Remember:

You're Braver Than You Believe,

And Stronger Than You Seem,

And Smarter Than You Think.

                                                     Jessica.Lili

  

tis one is use d  LOMO CAMERA ♥

our FUNNY pose♥

PEGGY、SANSAN、XIAO LI、& ME

★我只是离不开孤单★

我孤单，但已不想谈恋爱了。

     因为爱会让我更加孤单，因为爱，所以思念，因为思念，所以孤单。

      我孤单，不喜欢在晚上十二点前睡觉，即使很困，也不会那么早上床。我喜欢在午夜的网上游荡，日志里留下一些悲伤的文字。我孤单，我似乎离不开电脑，但是面对电脑也不知道要做些什么好？我不知道自己上线是为了等谁?我很少找人聊天，只是表明自己的存在，我流行沉默是金。我孤单，在别人眼中，我是叛逆的，是颓废的，只有我自己才知道，我也有梦，也有自己的目标，我也有自己的无奈，我无奈，无语，那些私密的伤，让我变得更加孤单，孤独，和无助。

男人们说他抽的是烟，吸的是孤单。女人们讲，我们喝的是酒，咽下的是孤单。

我用朦胧的眼看着飘渺的国度，我抱怨自己的人生，我羡慕着他人的辉煌，我在叹息与无奈中慢慢地变老，在无奈与傍徨中渐渐成熟。于是，我习惯了孤单，习惯了孤独，习惯了颓废。孤单时，我会看电影，吃垃圾零食，玩幼稚游戏。不是孤单粘着我，而是我一直随着孤单，我想学着沉稳，却没有想到变成了忧郁，我想学着疯狂，却没想到变得更加孤单。

    原来，我只可以与孤单为伍，只能够与孤独作伴。90后的我注定了孤单 :'(

Met You ♥

Saw you once again

Your shadow far apart

Do u know?

I did tell myself, i will forget you the day after

I did remind myself, i dont miss you anymore

Then i thought i really did, but till now~

I found i am a fool, i was deceiving myself

You were never out of my life

Even a day

But conceal from my deepest heart

Miss you

Remember you

Never even less than yesterday

Do you know?

While saw you, i shunted

Escape from you

No whys but felt my heart was bleeding

Perhaps afraid to face you

Perhaps afraid that i couldnt speak when meeting you

I know

You always being who you are

You are not the one i meet before

And the one i miss not the one i met

The yesterday of you will only alive in my deepest heart

i hate that everything is out of my control. it happens as it was so right. i was cheated by u two. forgive sounds good, but forget i think i never could. u two totally have no idea that how much i want to forgive u. and how much i miss u. but... when u destroyed the trust, u destroyed everything including my life. i don't know who to trust now. we three had so much sweet memory. and i have to learn to forget them all.now,i try to hide the hurt. just move on. when something is wrong,i always told myself that everything would be all right. and i could handle everythig, cause that was me, that was my life.

Love and Time

Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others, including Love. One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all constructed boats and left. Except for Love. Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to hold out until the last possible moment. When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help. Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said, "Richness, can you take me with you?" Richness answered, "No, I can't. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you." Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel. "Vanity, please help me!" "I can't help you, Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered. Sadness was close by so Love asked, "Sadness, let me go with you." "Oh . . . Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!" Happiness passed by Love, too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her. Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come, Love, I will take you." It was an elder. So blessed and overjoyed, Love even forgot to ask the elder where they were going. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her own way. Realizing how much was owed the elder, Love asked Knowledge, another elder, "Who Helped me?" "It was Time," Knowledge answered. "Time?" asked Love. "But why did Time help me?" Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how valuable Love is."

最珍贵的是朋友情而不是爱情

什么是朋友？朋友就是彼此相交的人，彼此要好的人。但“人之相识，贵在相知；人之相知，贵在知心。”谁谁也说：“人生得一知己足矣，斯世当以同怀视之。”“名声、荣誉、快乐、财富这些东西，如果同友情相比，它们都是尘土。有缘才能相遇，有心才能相知。茫茫人海中，朋友能够彼此遇到，能够走到一起，彼此相互认识，相互了解，相互走近，实在是缘份。在人来人往，聚散分离的人生旅途中，在各自不同的生命轨迹上，在不同经历的心海中，能够彼此相遇、相聚、相逢，可以说是一种幸运，缘份不是时刻都会有的，应该珍惜得来不易的缘。


 朋友相处是一种相互认可，相互仰慕，相互欣赏、相互感知的过程。对方的优点、长处、亮点、美感，都会映在你的脑海，尽收眼底，哪怕是朋友一点点的可贵，也会成为你向上的能量，成为你终身受益的动力和源泉。朋友的智慧、知识、能力、激情，是吸引你靠近的磁力和力量。同时你的一切也是朋友认识和感知的过程。朋友之间贵在真诚相待，诚则交之，疑则离之，自私自利、心术不正的人，不妨舍之。

真诚的友情是永恒的，“人不能老是行时，在你背时的时候，有人还了解你，就是知己了。”

　　朋友之间贵在互相见谅，“善人者，人亦善之”，对于朋友的优点，不能忌而不学；对朋友的缺点，不能视而不见；对朋友的忠告，不能听而不闻；就是一些过激的言语，或者偏颇的看法，只要是对自己的善言，也不能怒而反讥。


 一个人，要想多得到真挚的友谊，除了对朋友真诚相待外，还要能够容忍对方的缺点，要注意自己怎样做人，莫辜负朋友的知己之情。

“人生难得一知己，千古知音最难觅。”我想这也是一种人生的际遇，是可遇不可求的。能拥有一位“望之俨然，即之也温，听其言也厉”的“三变”君子做知己，是人生一大幸事也！

很难说，你在我心中到底有多重！只知道，生命的旅程中不能没有你！风雨人生路，朋友可以为你挡风寒，为你分忧愁，为你解痛苦和困难，朋友时时会伸出友谊之手。她是你登高时的一把扶梯，是你受伤时的一剂良药，是你饥渴时的一碗白开水，是你过河时的一叶扁舟；她是金钱买不来，命令下不到的，只有真心才能够换来的最可贵、最真实的东西。

烦恼时友情如醇绵的酒，痛苦时友情如清香的茶，快乐时友情如轻快的歌，孤寂时友情如对饮的月……

最是珍贵朋友情！

这是我送给我的老婆们的video,也是我用心良苦熬夜做的！希望我的老婆们会喜欢哦！